smilez' comment was about the other woman. the ex-husband's wife's exboyfriend - or however it was worded. the woman who knows that her boyfriend raped your daughter and who still wants him in her life. her comment was not about you. smilez is one of the most supportive people here. pls go re-read the post and you'll see that she wasn't talking about you.

i don't know the other person. but regardless, don't let one comment drive you away or make you question the sincerity of everyone else here.