If you start writing to someone that's been down for years, with no chance of daylight, they just might share some of the letters with you. My one guy has, and honestly, I would rip someone's face off if they sent me some of those letters.

I think 75% write letters because they care and the other 25% are scarey.

Most just want to be in someone's life, and have an honest pen pal to share with.

QQ has a great approach....she includes the guys in her weekly activities...Whether it be stuck at a stoplight and things she finds funny, or what her kids are doing. She's real.

Nade