I have been writing to several guys for a few months, as most of you know, and something that the ones who have had an ad for awhile mention is that they get a lot of responses, but most girls just want to play (mind) games. They always tell me they can tell I am not that type. What types of (mind) games do women play with inmates? I can't imagine what you can do or what the gain would be in playing a (mind) game through snail mail with inmates. Anyone have some insight?